Ep 12: This One Habit Will Change Your Reactions Forever

What if the biggest breakdowns in your relationships, leadership, and even your faith aren’t caused by circumstances, but by the conclusions you make in seconds? 

In this episode, Brad Hawkins and Jim Brangenberg turn the mic on themselves to introduce The Power of OR. What starts as a book launch quickly becomes a practical, eye-opening conversation about how one small shift in thinking can interrupt destructive patterns, restore peace, and help you pursue truth before reacting. 

What you’ll hear in the episode: 

• The simple idea behind “The Power of OR” and why it’s so impactful 

• How thoughts trigger a domino effect: emotions → behaviors → results 

• Why your first reaction is rarely the full truth 

• Brad’s personal story of loss, frustration, and rebuilding his faith 

• The difference between “I don’t know” and actively seeking understanding 

• A practical framework: disrupt, discern, then decide 

• Real-life examples from marriage, business, and leadership 

• How OR thinking transforms team culture and client interactions 

• A powerful illustration of how assumptions can quickly spiral 

• Why this is a mindset worth teaching your kids and grandkids 

At its core, this conversation is about choosing curiosity over certainty. It’s about pausing long enough to seek truth, extend grace, and respond with intention instead of impulse. 

If you’re ready to put this into practice, The Power of OR isn’t just a concept. It’s a tool you can start using immediately. Grab a copy of the book and begin reshaping the way you think, respond, and lead. 

Featuring: Brad Hawkins 

Role: Author of The Power of OR